The fact whether I was missing something being the only child of my parents had never struck me until now. I always thought that it was actually awesome being the only child.... I could have everything under the sun...I just had to mention it and my parents would do it for me.... there was no role for a sibling in this...elder or younger...brother or sister.... For the past 15 days I have been staying at my mosi's place in chennai... my mosi has 2 children..a boy (my elder bro) and a girl (my little sis)... Bro works in B'lore... never the more I never interacted with him that much even when he was around... But my sis has been my fav frm time immemorable... may be because she is the only yongest sis (cousin) I have or may be coz she is a fellow scorpion (ya now thats a reason..). Although we used to talk on phone when I was back in kerala, there was not much to say abt the bro-sishood . The gap might have bridged or the bonding might have started when I came to Vellore and joined VIT. I used to visit her frequently... have small talks... small fights... go around...make fun of others... make fun of her hillarious tamil accent while speaking malayalam.... At the end of 2 years she was more than a cousin to me...she is like my own sis.... My dad used to say that I was a selfish pig, who wanted everything for myself...I hated to share even the smallest thing... be it anything... But now I can see myself change... I give her more priority... I don't find me thinking for a second time when she asks me something dear that I have... I straight away give it... Previously I used to laugh or say "big deal" when my friends and my cousins used to care for their sibilings.... now I understand how they feel.... A billion thanks to this little sis of mine who brought this change in me...although least important but definitely required for an "only child" like me.... LOVE U SIS...
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